Chapter 26 - Amy: Advice for Protecting Your Children
Amy writes, "I once asked Alan what his greatest weapon was in his crusade to ensnare and abuse hundreds of children. He answered quickly and succinctly with one word - "listening." page 207, para. 1. As I think about this answer, I realize I am guilty of not always listening to my grandchildren. Mostly because they often seem to talk simply as a means of garnering attention over their siblings. However, I may be unintentionally tuning out important information they are trying to share.
Bedtime is convenient and productive, I read a book to all and then alternate each night lying with one of them for about 15 minutes. To avoid falling asleep they will begin talking and telling me stories. I don't pry or ask questions. I simply listen to what they are telling me. I love them all very much and cherish their love and trust for me, so this good night ritual seems to work for all of us. I encourage all parents to carve out quality time with each of their children. Time to just to listen. Amy find music rather than discussion a viable medium for communication with children.
Amy notes, " Ask to listen to your children's favorite music. Regardless of how you feel about this particular music, listen in an open, engaging way. You do not want them to feel that you are interested in it only to condemn it. This mere request will make your children feel recognized and important." page 208, para. 1. Remember that when you listen to your children's stories or their music you are filling a potential gap in their lives you do not want filled by a pedophile such as Alan.
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